a simple me

Hello !!!! First i want to thank you for visiting my blog, on what ever way its is, it my pleasure to have you today. I'm Bhie Viloria,  A mother of 2 .. Jan Allysa and Jules Alekhine.

Busy mom because this really reflects on my personality . For everyday work at office being a Logistics Assistant of Airlift Asia Inc , even i have my mom in law in our house ....i'm a hands on mom for my kids and my husband

> love to go out in any place to explore and  to bond with my fam
> member of INC choir
> photo lover that dreaming to be a photographer someday
> green color is my fave... that's why i love nature
> a mountaineer
> love beautiful places especially here on our own.. Philippines.


Your comments , re-actions, or suggestion was really appreciated. I hope you'll be comfortable reading my words. I'm just a simple women who appreciates small and simple things. Let be follower's for our next blogs. Nice meeting you ....I want to be your friend.


this is me .......

Bhie

Handling the puberty age of my son Jules

Parenting is not just an easy as we think, this is a process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development of a child from infancy to adulthood. In my own experience , raising my kids from infants to toddler years is just easy and enjoyable. I'm not saying that this stage is hard to do, but i can say this is complicated. If parents have lack of knowledge while encountering this part of life of the kids, this will cause bad effect. Have to keep in mind, parents play a primary role during this phase of development. Parents who know what's coming can cope with it better. The more parents know, the better we can prepare .

Now i'm handling this stage of my son Jules, he is 11 years old boy a grade 6 student. Even this is weird to hear, sometimes i'm thinking, i don't want them to grow, i want their toddler to elementary years back. But off course , this cannot take place.

In the usual signs of puberty age , first we encountered on him is his mood swings.  At first i’m really irritated if his voice higher than mine. Also he always fighting with her  sister. Now I understand this is just a part.We need more patience if he encountered the natural emotional changes like being dis-obedient and dis-respectful.We have to understand that the erratic changes in the behavior is a part of the development process and the change in hormones cause it. On the next years..we are preparing to handle his next changes. 

>Growth of reproductive organs

>Random erections

>Wet dreams

>Deepening Of Voice

>Growth of breasts and hair

>Emotional changes

The big role of us being their parents is very important. If we are there for them at that time and explain things in a calm manner then it goes a long way in building their confidence.

It is also critical to impart the right education to child when he is undergoing puberty. Although children are smart now-a-days, some of them may have difficulty accepting that wet dreams, random erections without sexual thoughts, vaginal discharge and onset of menstruation for the girls is completely natural. We parents or us who can read this blog, need to communicate and explain them that they don't need to worry about such things. Proper communication is extremely important during this phase and it contributes to the overall growth in our child as an aware and responsible human being.

Looking forward , I’m not saying  we all know ….this sayings is from all my searching.But me and my husband persuing to do the right way and follow this guidelines to make also this stage be easy, enjoyable and comfortable for our two little ones.

Hope my words can help to all other parents who also have son and daughter like mine.

Bhie

Nuvali / Paseo de Sta. Rosa , Laguna

"Pakainin ang mga gutom na isda".This hungry koi fishes is the reason why we choose this place for the day before celebration of Jules my son 11th birthday last July 14.Home of koi's, these colorful creatures are not only fun to watch, but it also helps keep the lake water clear. Koi are an omnivorous fish, and recognize the person feeding them.

 

NUVALI, is a 4-hectare man made  lake, surrounded by green local plants. Rent a bike / riding the water taxi / feed the koi  fishes / eat on a restaurants are just some of the activities can enjoy in this place.

 

 

 

their favorite pose , jump shot.

there is also a tiangge , selling clothes , plants etc. Kids can play here a P20 cost, an example is koi catching and any others.

 some of our kulitan pix.

 

a few blocks after Nuvali is the Paseo de Sta. Rosa , we move here to explore again and decided to eat here.

 

Rates of activities in Nuvali : 

Fish Feeding
8:30 AM and 4:30 PM Daily
Fish feeds are available at Solenad and the Evoliving Center for Php 15.00/cup


Water Taxi
Operating hours: 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM Daily; no boat rides on Mondays
Rates: Php 30.00/ea one-way


Bike Ride
Operating hours: 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM Daily
Rates: Php 60.00 / 1 hr. ride

happy birthday !!!! Mimi !!!!!

For all greeting's of important people around that i really appreciate . this is the best greets i ever receive. That make me realize my kids is not longer a baby anymore. They are starting to growing up , starting to be aware of whats happenin . starting to know how important our role being their parents  in their life. After church thursday morning , i found this little hand made card from this two little man and woman.

I'd smile when i saw it but my tears began when i've read the characters inside.

Dear Mimi,

Maraming salamat po at binubuhay nyo po kami ng higit pa sa mga bagay, sorry po kung naging makulit ako , pagpaseniyahan niyo na lang po balang araw magbabago din ako. Maraming salamat po na lahat ng gusto namin ay pumapayag kayo ni Tatay. Alam niyo po kung huwarang bata lang ako, mas tataasan ko pa ang grado ko. Salamat po.

From Ysa

"Ito lang po ang ginawa ko sa inyo para matuwa po ikaw sa akin... Wala po akong pera pambili ng materyal na bagay.

From: Jules

 

this is what he draw , "Tatay buy a cake for Mimi , Ysa and I are so happy"  A simple message but means a lot to me.

My kids is a gift given by Almighty God...What i alway's pray  is to take care of them specially when the times that my sight cannot reach them.

We love them so much.

Southwinds Resort para sa 31st ko ....

Southwinds Resort
Pansol , Laguna

An advance celebration of my 31st b-day with the Viloria's. As i remember last year were with our own Fam Villanueva's at Calatagan Batangas, by now Jay  family from Malabon goes here at Laguna to join us in our celebration same for the bonding of our little kids. His wife Annie, eldest Joshua and their youngest kid Jexzel, of course with my byenan Nay Alice, the one that prepare all our baon for the day.

We choose Souhtwind Resort at Pansol,Laguna.We arive at the resort around 11 am, because my kids came from their tupad at PNK as childrens choir. Even not a hot spring they have warm water sooth for the kids even they stay long hour in a pool.The best part of this swimming is when the rain pour, people shout and the other jump due to the happiness because of the rain. People tend to be a little kids same with me and Ryan my hub.

looking at their faces .... their smile prove how they enjoy each other's company.

the resort view in top of the hotel. Below are some pix for the other views.

 

Jay and Annie's Family.

 

my byenan requesting for a shot na kita ang view ng mountain at the back... perfect !!!!!!!

pictorial lang po hehehehe...

ang mag-iina ........... pero kulang sila kasi wlang yung bunso si Erick...

cute pic ng magpipinsan .......

enjoy the fun it;s swimming time..


then next night swimming na.....

 

 

around 9 pm ....then time to go home...

Thank you so much guys !!!!!!!!!!

Southwinds Resort is located at the front of Sun City Resort at Pansol Laguna.
Entance fee is P68 for kids and 78 for adults.
There are many choice for cottages based on how many person will accomodate.
They have also rooms for couple and family too for what accomodation they want.

let's play in the rain

on our apartment

 

Playing in the rain is such a fun activity , while i'm watching them i remember my younger years.

Playing with my little brothers and sister , only happen if my mama allow us because her of her sayings "baka magkasakit ... mahirap  na" . Now  i understand because i'm now also a mom.

Lalu for that little girl Ysa na medyo mahina ang baga. Just for fun and bonding to their kalaro.

I also allow them less than our of playing.

  

Ayan ..... tila na ang ulan ... before ,  kids says "Rain , rain go away"
Now hindi na ... "rain , rain please back again"  gusto pang maglaro ei.

Mother's Day @ SM City Calamba

One thing that make me sad for this special day is my Mama , she back at Malabon the day before , but switched my mom in law (Alicia Viloria) to have a vacation here at Laguna same to have bond with her. While celebrating of this special day, we took a chance to buy things we need , the other school supplies of kids, same with groceries needed in our house. Then after, at all time favorite chicken " KFC "

Sila po yung mag-ina , watch -out what happen after my hub trying to subo the desert to my mom in law.

 

Ayan e di nasabunutan ka.... panu ba naman susubuaan tapos biglang babawiin hehehe.

 

All time favorite deserts .. 

 

Pagkatapos ng kulitan , may jumpshot pics pa.

 

 

Ahahaha ....ayan because of your jumpshots... na-out of balance tuloy si Nanay , as i remember Jules want to rescue her but what happen , he says "Nini , anu nanyari." si Nanay naman tawa ng tawa hehehe.

 

Isang nakakutuwang maghapon .... medyo nakakapagod but time of bonding ...the best talaga !!!