Handling the puberty age of my son Jules

Parenting is not just an easy as we think, this is a process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development of a child from infancy to adulthood. In my own experience , raising my kids from infants to toddler years is just easy and enjoyable. I'm not saying that this stage is hard to do, but i can say this is complicated. If parents have lack of knowledge while encountering this part of life of the kids, this will cause bad effect. Have to keep in mind, parents play a primary role during this phase of development. Parents who know what's coming can cope with it better. The more parents know, the better we can prepare .

Now i'm handling this stage of my son Jules, he is 11 years old boy a grade 6 student. Even this is weird to hear, sometimes i'm thinking, i don't want them to grow, i want their toddler to elementary years back. But off course , this cannot take place.

In the usual signs of puberty age , first we encountered on him is his mood swings.  At first i’m really irritated if his voice higher than mine. Also he always fighting with her  sister. Now I understand this is just a part.We need more patience if he encountered the natural emotional changes like being dis-obedient and dis-respectful.We have to understand that the erratic changes in the behavior is a part of the development process and the change in hormones cause it. On the next years..we are preparing to handle his next changes. 

>Growth of reproductive organs

>Random erections

>Wet dreams

>Deepening Of Voice

>Growth of breasts and hair

>Emotional changes

The big role of us being their parents is very important. If we are there for them at that time and explain things in a calm manner then it goes a long way in building their confidence.

It is also critical to impart the right education to child when he is undergoing puberty. Although children are smart now-a-days, some of them may have difficulty accepting that wet dreams, random erections without sexual thoughts, vaginal discharge and onset of menstruation for the girls is completely natural. We parents or us who can read this blog, need to communicate and explain them that they don't need to worry about such things. Proper communication is extremely important during this phase and it contributes to the overall growth in our child as an aware and responsible human being.

Looking forward , I’m not saying  we all know ….this sayings is from all my searching.But me and my husband persuing to do the right way and follow this guidelines to make also this stage be easy, enjoyable and comfortable for our two little ones.

Hope my words can help to all other parents who also have son and daughter like mine.

Bhie